The first poison: AvoidanceSymptoms,
laridari fact, ignoring responsibilities, but by running away from the
fact we are only going to get false happiness that lasts a moment.
Antibody: RealityHow to: Stop deceiving yourself. Do
not be too serious in dealing with problems due to mental hospitals are
filled with patients who followed his grief and feel the environment a
source of frustration. So, solve every problem faced completely and believe that everything should always be pursued with the best hardware.
The second poison: FearSymptoms,
not sure myself, tense, anxious, among others, could be due to
financial difficulties, marital conflict, sexual difficulties.
Antibody: CourageHow to: Avoid a person who's dependent on anxiety. Remember 99 percent of the things we worry about never happen. Courage is the most powerful self defense. Use of intellectual analysis and find solutions to problems through the correct mental attitude. Kebenarian is a re-education process. So, do not hesitate to seek help from an expert, such as a psychiatrist or psychologist.
The third poison: selfishNyiyir, materialistic, aggressive, prefer to ask than to give.
Antibody: Being SocialHow to: Do not exploit your friends. Akn happiness gained if we can help others. Keep in mind people who do not expect anything from other people is those who have never felt let down.
Four toxins: StagnationThe symptoms stopped one phase, making us feel bored, bored, and unhappy.
Antibody: AmbitionMethod: Continue to grow, meaning that we continue in our future ambitions. we do find happiness in the excitement as our ambition is.
Five toxins: low self-esteemSymptoms: Loss of self confidence and self-confidence and feel they have no ability to compete.
Antibody: ConfidenceMethod: A person can not win if before the war convinced him aka lost. When we are confident in our ability, in fact we've got half of the targets that we want to achieve. So, success begins when we believe that we are able to achieve it.
Sixth poison: narcissisticSymptoms: superiority complex, too arrogant, false pride.
Antibody: HumilityMethod: The proud will easily lose friends, because without the presence of friends, we will not be happy. Avoid knowingly. With humility, we will naturally want to hear other people making 50 percent chance of success we achieve.
Seventh poison: Self-pitySymptoms: The habit of attention, the dominant mood, moody, stabbed himself, was a man termalang in the world.
Antibody: SublimationMethod: Do not make yourself into a neurotic, fixated on yourself. Forget the problems themselves and to avoid the sentimental and obsessive behavior toward dependence on others.
Poisons Eight: The attitude of idlenessSymptoms: Apathy, saturation continues, daydreaming, and spending time with unproductive way, feel lonely.
Antibody: WorkHow to: Make us to closely follow the work schedule we have planned before by actively working. Avoid the tendency to make our existence is meaningless and complain incessantly.
Poisons ninth: Attitudes Not TolerantSymptoms: Thoughts petty, petty racial hatred, arrogance, antagonism toward a particular religion, religious prejudice.
Antibody: Self-ControlMethod: Settle our emotions through the art of self control. Observe them intellectually. Increase our tolerance levels. Remember that the world was created and is created from the diversity of cultures and religions.
Tenth poison: HatredSymptoms: The desire of revenge, cruel, cruel.
Antibody: LoveHow to: Eliminate hatred. Learn to forgive and forget. Hatred is one of the negative emotions that form the basis of a sense of unhappiness. People who have hatred usually also hated himself for hating others. The only thing that can eliminate the hatred is love. Love is the ultimate force that can be owned by each person.
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